Sunday, March 6, 2011

Abortion survivor now a crusader against it


The defining moment of Melissa Ohden's life arrived five days before she was born.

Her biological mother entered St. Luke's Medical Center in Sioux City on Aug. 24, 1977, as a pregnant, 19-year-old college freshman.

She must have been scared. The teen from South Sioux City, Neb., was administered a saline infusion abortion - a salt injection designed to poison and burn the fetus as well as to induce labor.

Yet Ohden survived and eventually was born at 3:40 p.m. Aug. 29 with a weak cry, weighing in at just 2 pounds, 12 ounces. Her skin was "relatively pink" with some bruises.

Ohden's footprints were made when she was 26 days old. A nurse in Iowa City temporarily named the infant Katie Rose before she was adopted by an Iowa couple.
It's Ohden's unlikely (she would say miraculous) survival more than 33 years ago that fuels her global anti-abortion activism today. In one speech and interview after another, Ohden recounts the details of her own brush with death in the womb, which left emotional scars but no tangible physical or mental disabilities.

Through her work, Ohden says she has become aware of only 13 other abortion survivors around the globe, including fellow anti-abortion activists Gianna Jessen, Claire Culwell and Brandy Lozier.

Medical records from St. Luke's outline how Ohden "was delivered spontaneously in bed by a nurse."

In the space on a form that asks for "complications of this pregnancy," the entry reads dryly: "saline infusion." (Instillation methods such as the saline infusion that Ohden survived now represent fewer than 1 percent of abortions, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.)

"Legitimate?" the form also asks. "No."

At one day old, the infant Ohden - still nameless at this point - was determined to be "doing well."

"Active. Color good. Slight jaundice."

Ohden's mother initially reported herself as 18 weeks pregnant, but doctors later estimated the newborn's gestational age to be closer to 31 weeks.

Ohden was placed in the care of the old Iowa Department of Social Services and transferred to University of Iowa Hospitals in Iowa City. Nurse Mary Schmelzer lovingly bestowed the infant with a temporary name: Katie Rose.

"I don't have any children. That's what I would've named them," said Schmelzer, adding that Ohden is the only abortion survivor she's come in contact with in 42 years of nursing.

When Ron and Linda Cross of rural Curlew drove to Iowa City to look at Katie Rose (Ohden) in 1977, her head was shaved from temple to temple where IVs had been inserted. She was still too weak to suck down liquids.

"When they put her in my arms, I just knew everything was going to be OK," Linda Cross said.

The couple had tried for years to have children and already had adopted one girl, Tammy, from a different family.

Adoptive parents Ron and Linda Cross took this photograph of Ohden in 1977 when she was 1½ months old — the first time they saw her. After her birth at St. Luke’s Medical Center in Sioux City she was transferred to University of Iowa Hospitals in Iowa City.
Katie Rose at 1 1/2 months old

They took "Missy" home in October, after she reached 5 pounds.

Ohden by age 14 considered herself a "budding feminist." She knew she was adopted but remained unaware she had survived an abortion.

"It never seemed to be the right time to be able to bring that up," Linda Cross said.

Ohden sympathizes with her adoptive parents on this point: How do you even begin to raise the topic?

It took her sister Tammy's unplanned pregnancy as a high school junior to trigger the revelation. Ron and Linda told Ohden's history to their older daughter as a cautionary tale to dissuade her from seeking an abortion.

Later, the sisters were locked in one of their frequent fights when, according to Ohden, Tammy let fly with this: "You know what, Missy? At least my parents wanted me!"

Ohden's face registered only shock and confusion.

"You don't know, do you?" Tammy said.

That was the end of the argument.

"I was scared to death," Ohden said. "My sister never walked away from a fight with me."

When Linda Cross returned home from her job at the bank, Ohden immediately confronted her.

"Wow, that was something," Cross recalled. "You try to answer the questions as gently as you can. ... She just absorbed everything that I was saying to her."

Ohden considers this to be "a big moment that God intervened" in her life. Cross could relate only the basic outline of the abortion story, not all the details that would be revealed in medical records. But it provided the foundation for Ohden's eventual anti-abortion activism as well as incentive to search for her birth mother.

"I wanted to know why that decision had been made to abort my life," she said.

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